How long will I feel like this?
The sore throat and fever usually settle within one to two weeks, and swollen glands over several weeks. The fatigue is the long part — commonly one to three months before you feel properly yourself, and longer for some people. Recovery is stop-start rather than steady: a good day followed by a poor one is the normal shape of it, not a relapse.
Why can't I play football for a month?
Because your spleen is enlarged and fragile. Splenic rupture is uncommon but life-threatening, and it can follow a surprisingly minor impact. Four weeks minimum from the start of the illness for contact sport, and four to eight for rugby, martial arts and similar, with a review before you return. Walking and gentle activity are fine throughout — it is impact and straining that matter.
I got a rash from amoxicillin. Am I allergic to penicillin?
Almost certainly not, and this is worth sorting out. Amoxicillin and ampicillin cause a widespread rash in the great majority of people who have glandular fever — it is a specific interaction with the virus, not an allergy. Being labelled penicillin-allergic on that basis follows you for life and means broader, less effective antibiotics every time you are ill. Bring it to us and we will review the record.
My test was negative but I'm sure I have it.
Quite possible. The monospot test is frequently falsely negative in the first week of the illness, and is unreliable in young children. If it was done early, it should be repeated — or EBV-specific antibodies requested instead, which are more accurate and can distinguish current from past infection.
My liver tests came back abnormal. Should I be worried?
Usually not. Mildly abnormal liver tests occur in most people with glandular fever — the virus causes a mild hepatitis — and they almost always return to normal. It is worth avoiding alcohol for about four weeks and repeating the test to confirm they settle. Reported without explanation, this result frightens people unnecessarily.
Can I catch it again?
No. Once you have had EBV, it stays dormant in your body and you are immune to further attacks. If you get another glandular-fever-like illness, it is something else — cytomegalovirus, toxoplasmosis, streptococcal infection, or occasionally acute HIV, which produces a very similar picture and is worth testing for.
Do I need to stay off work or school?
Only until you feel well enough to go. There is no formal exclusion period, and isolating serves no purpose: the virus is shed in saliva for months afterwards and most adults already carry it. Avoid sharing drinks and cutlery, and avoid kissing while you are unwell. Sport is the exception — that restriction is real.
Could this leave me with chronic fatigue?
For most people, no — recovery is complete. Around one in ten has fatigue lasting six months or more, and glandular fever is one of the most clearly established triggers for ME/CFS. The best protection is not pushing through: increase activity in small steps and hold each one, rather than doing everything on a good day. If you are no better at three months, come back — that warrants reassessment, not just more waiting.
Is there anything that speeds it up?
No — no antiviral, antibiotic or supplement shortens glandular fever, and steroids are used only for genuine complications like airway swelling. Fluids, rest, regular pain relief and a gradual return to activity are the whole of it. Products sold for "EBV support" are selling to a market of exhausted people, not to evidence.