Is my thyroid to blame?
It is worth testing, and it is the first test we do — but expectations should be realistic. An underactive thyroid typically accounts for a few kilograms, much of it fluid, rather than a large gain. Correcting it returns that amount and no more. It is checked because it is easy, treatable and important, not because it usually explains everything.
Could my medication be doing it?
Very possibly, and this is the most frequently missed cause. Several antipsychotics, antidepressants, diabetes drugs, steroids, gabapentin, pregabalin and beta blockers all cause meaningful gain. If it started within weeks of a new prescription, that is the first thing to examine — but do not stop anything before discussing it.
I have gained 3kg in four days. How?
Not as fat — that is physiologically impossible over four days. Rapid gain is fluid, and it points to the heart, kidneys, liver or a medication rather than to diet. It should be assessed rather than dieted away.
Why has my weight changed since the menopause?
Falling oestrogen shifts where fat is stored, towards the abdomen, and muscle mass declines with age unless actively maintained. The result is that the same eating and activity produce a different outcome. Resistance training and protein intake matter more after the menopause than before, and HRT may help with the distribution though it is not a weight-loss treatment.
I stopped smoking and gained weight. Should I start again?
No. The average gain after stopping is around 4 to 5kg and it is real — nicotine suppresses appetite and raises metabolic rate. But the health gain from stopping vastly outweighs the weight gained, and the weight can be addressed afterwards. Never trade one for the other.
My tests were all normal. What now?
Normal tests are useful — they exclude the treatable causes properly. What follows is weight management with realistic goals, and medication if you meet the criteria. Normal tests do not mean nothing can be done; they mean the plan can proceed without an unanswered question hanging over it.
Am I just eating too much?
Almost everyone under-estimates their intake, which is a feature of memory rather than a character flaw. But the more useful question is why appetite is where it is — sleep, medication, hormones, stress and eating behaviour all shift it, and those are addressable in a way that being told to eat less is not.
Should I try a detox or a fat burner?
No. Neither has credible evidence, some contain undeclared or harmful ingredients, and the money is better spent on something that works.