Do I need a blood test to be diagnosed?
Over 45 with typical symptoms, no. The diagnosis is clinical and HRT can be started without one.
A normal result should never be used to refuse you treatment.
How long do symptoms last?
On average around seven years, and for some women considerably longer. "It will pass" is true eventually and not much comfort in year four.
Vaginal and urinary symptoms are the exception — they persist and worsen without treatment rather than settling.
Is HRT safe?
For most women starting under 60 or within ten years of menopause, the benefits outweigh the risks. That is the current UK position and it is a meaningful shift from what many people absorbed twenty years ago.
Combined HRT carries a small increase in breast cancer risk that falls after stopping; oestrogen-only carries little or none. Against that sit symptom control, bone protection and quality of life.
It is a genuine decision, and being frightened out of treatment by a headline is its own harm.
Will I put on weight?
HRT does not cause weight gain. Weight tends to redistribute around the middle at this stage of life regardless, driven by falling oestrogen and age.
Some women find HRT makes it easier to manage, by improving sleep and energy enough to exercise.
Can I start HRT if my periods have not stopped?
Yes. Treatment can begin during perimenopause — you do not have to wait until periods stop.
You still need contraception until twelve months after your last period, and HRT does not provide it.
What if HRT does not suit me?
The first preparation is frequently not the final one, and switching type, dose or route resolves most problems.
Non-hormonal options exist too — including CBT, which has good evidence for flushes and for sleep, and certain non-hormonal medicines.
Could this be my thyroid instead?
Possibly, and it is worth excluding. An underactive thyroid produces near-identical symptoms and is entirely treatable in a different way.
Iron deficiency does the same, and both are common in women of this age.
Any bleeding after menopause — what should I do?
Get it checked, always. Any bleeding twelve months or more after your last period needs investigating, however light and however brief.
It is usually not cancer — but it is the symptom that finds the cases that matter, and it should never be watched and waited on.