Can you prescribe me sleeping tablets?
Not remotely, and not as a first step. Z-drugs and benzodiazepines lose effectiveness within weeks, cause rebound insomnia worse than the original on stopping, and substantially raise the risk of falls and confusion in older people. What we can do is set up the treatment that actually works long-term, and treat any underlying cause.
Does CBT-I really beat tablets?
Yes — not immediately, but decisively over time. Tablets work while taken and stop working when stopped. CBT-I takes a few weeks and the improvement persists for years afterwards. It is recommended as first-line treatment for exactly that reason, and digital versions are available to use at home.
Why would spending less time in bed help?
Because sleep works on pressure and association. Nine hours in bed for six hours of sleep spreads sleep thinly and teaches your brain that bed is a place you lie awake. Restricting time in bed concentrates sleep, deepens it, and rebuilds the association — then the window is widened again. It is uncomfortable for a week or two and it is the most effective thing available.
Do I really need eight hours?
Not necessarily. Sleep need genuinely varies, and some adults do well on six. The eight-hour figure causes real anxiety, and anxiety about sleep is itself a major cause of insomnia. Judge by how you function in the day, not by a number.
Should I use a sleep tracker?
Probably not if you have insomnia. They are not accurate at distinguishing sleep stages, and checking a score each morning reliably increases anxiety about sleep — which worsens it. There is a recognised pattern of people made worse by their own data.
Does a nightcap help?
It helps you fall asleep and damages everything after that. Alcohol suppresses REM sleep and causes fragmented waking in the second half of the night as it clears. People who drink to sleep are usually sleeping worse, not better.
Is it my age?
Sleep does change with age — lighter, more fragmented, shifted earlier — and that is normal. But insomnia is not an inevitable part of ageing, and in older adults it very often has a treatable cause: pain, prostate symptoms, medication, or sleep apnoea. It is worth investigating rather than accepting.
What about melatonin?
Useful for body-clock problems — jet lag, shift work, and a sleep phase shifted later — rather than for ordinary insomnia, where it is not particularly effective. In the UK it is prescription-only and licensed for short-term use over 55. Products bought abroad or online vary considerably in what they actually contain.