Why does the cream never seem to work?
Because it is almost always started too late. Antivirals stop the virus replicating, and by the time a blister is visible most of that has already happened. Start at the first tingle, before anything appears — which means keeping treatment at home rather than going to buy it once you can see something.
Can I kiss my baby?
Not with an active cold sore, and this genuinely matters. Neonatal herpes is uncommon but can be life-threatening, and babies under three months are most at risk. Avoid kissing them until the sore has fully crusted, wash your hands, and do not be shy about asking visiting relatives to do the same.
Does having cold sores mean I have an STI?
No. Oral herpes is usually caught in early childhood from ordinary family contact and is carried by most of the population. It is a different situation from genital herpes — though the same virus can cause genital infection if transmitted through oral sex, which is why avoiding that during an outbreak matters.
Will I always get them?
The virus stays in your system permanently, but outbreaks typically become less frequent over the years. Identifying your triggers — sunlight is the commonest — and using suppressive treatment where they are frequent makes a considerable difference.
Can I go to work?
Yes. Cold sores spread by direct contact, not through the air. Avoid sharing cups and cutlery, wash your hands, and do not touch the sore — unless you work with newborns or immunosuppressed patients, in which case ask about covering it or being redeployed.
Do lysine supplements help?
The evidence is weak and inconsistent. They are harmless, and if you find they help there is no reason to stop — but they are not a substitute for starting an antiviral early, which does have evidence behind it.
Why do I always get one on holiday?
Ultraviolet light is one of the strongest triggers, and holidays combine sun exposure with travel fatigue and disrupted sleep. A daily SPF lip balm, and in some cases a short antiviral course started before you travel, prevents a great many of them.
Can I get rid of the virus?
No — no treatment clears herpes simplex from the body. What treatment does is prevent and shorten outbreaks, which for most people is enough to make it a minor issue rather than a recurring one.