Is this just part of getting older?
No. ED becomes more common with age because vascular disease, diabetes and medication use become more common with age — not because ageing causes it directly. It is a signal worth investigating at any age, and it is treatable at any age.
Why do I need blood tests for a sexual problem?
Because in most men this is a blood vessel problem, and blood vessels are not confined to one organ. The arteries involved in an erection are narrower than the coronary arteries, so they show narrowing first — which is why ED tends to precede a cardiac event by several years. Those years are the opportunity, and blood tests are how you use them.
The tablet did not work. What now?
Usually one of four things. The dose was too low; you tried it too few times — four to eight attempts at a full dose is the fair test; you took sildenafil after a heavy meal; or there was no sexual stimulation, which these drugs require. If a proper trial genuinely fails, alternatives and referral exist. Roughly seven in ten men respond to a PDE5 inhibitor used correctly.
Is it all in my head?
Sometimes, often partly, rarely entirely. Morning erections and sudden situational onset both point to a psychological component — and psychological causes are real, common, and treatable, not a way of saying nothing is wrong. Most men have some element of both, which is why treating only one half tends to disappoint.
Can I buy Viagra online without seeing anyone?
You can, and we would advise against it. Counterfeits are common, and the reason these drugs are prescription-only is the interaction with nitrates, which can cause a fatal drop in blood pressure. There is also the point that buying a tablet skips the assessment that might have found the diabetes or the raised blood pressure underneath.
Do I need testosterone?
Probably not. Low testosterone is a less frequent cause than online marketing implies, and it usually presents with low desire and fatigue rather than erectile difficulty alone. It requires two morning samples with pituitary hormones before anyone should be treating it. A single afternoon reading is not a basis for lifelong therapy.
Will my partner think it is about them?
Frequently, unless you say otherwise — which is one of the more painful and avoidable parts of this. Explaining that it is a circulation problem, and that you are having it looked at, generally reduces the tension considerably.
Can it be reversed?
Often, yes. Where it is medication-related, changing the drug can resolve it. Where it is lifestyle and vascular, stopping smoking, exercising and losing weight produce genuine measurable improvement. Where it is psychological, therapy works. Treatment is not necessarily permanent.