Is it my teeth?
Almost certainly not, if the pain comes in brief electric shocks set off by light touch or a breeze. Toothache is constant, throbbing, and worse with hot and cold.
If dental treatment has not helped, stop before another extraction. People lose healthy teeth to this every year.
Why do painkillers not work?
Because this is nerve pain, and paracetamol, ibuprofen and opioids do not act on the mechanism causing it.
Increasing the dose does not help — you need a different class of drug entirely, and carbamazepine is that drug.
Why an epilepsy medicine?
Because it calms misfiring nerves, which is exactly what is happening here. The nerve has lost some of its insulation and is firing at the slightest touch.
Carbamazepine dampens that, and a good response is characteristic enough to support the diagnosis.
Why does a breeze set it off but pressing hard does not?
Because the damaged nerve misinterprets light touch specifically. It is one of the most distinctive features of the condition.
Mention it when you are assessed — it is a strong pointer and is easy to describe.
Do I need a scan?
An MRI is recommended, to look for a blood vessel pressing on the nerve, or occasionally MS or a tumour.
It matters most if you are under 50, have pain on both sides, or have any numbness. It is worth asking about if it has not been offered.
Does this mean I have MS?
Usually not. Most trigeminal neuralgia is caused by a blood vessel pressing on the nerve.
MS is a recognised cause and is more likely in younger people or with bilateral pain, which is precisely why the scan is recommended.
Will it go away?
Many people have long remissions, sometimes months or years. Medication can often be reduced during those, under supervision.
It does tend to return, and attacks often become more frequent over time — which is why surgery is worth discussing if tablets stop working.
What are the surgical options?
Microvascular decompression lifts the blood vessel off the nerve and gives the best long-term results.
Gamma knife and radiofrequency treatments are less invasive alternatives, and are available on the NHS at specialist centres.
Does carbamazepine affect my contraceptive pill?
Yes — it makes hormonal contraception less reliable, and this is missed surprisingly often.
Raise it before starting, not afterwards, so an alternative can be arranged.
I am struggling to cope with the pain. Is that normal?
Yes, and you are not being dramatic. This is recognised as one of the most severe pains there is, and the psychological toll is well documented.
Say so to whoever is treating you, and contact Samaritans on 116 123 if you need to talk to someone now. The pain is treatable.