Could I have prevented it with Calpol?
No, and this matters. Paracetamol and ibuprofen do not prevent febrile convulsions — that has been studied properly.
Nothing you did or did not do caused this. Give them for discomfort, not for prevention.
Does it mean my child has epilepsy?
Almost certainly not. After a simple febrile convulsion the chance of developing epilepsy is only slightly above the background risk for any child.
Febrile convulsions and epilepsy are different things, and one rarely leads to the other.
Will it have damaged their brain?
No. Simple febrile convulsions do not cause brain damage, learning difficulties or developmental problems.
Children who have them develop exactly as they would have done.
Will it happen again?
Around a third of children have another, usually within a year, and the chance is higher if the first one was before 18 months or there is a family history.
Most children stop having them by the age of five.
What do I actually do if it happens?
Note the time. Clear the space. Do not restrain them and put nothing in their mouth. Roll them on their side once it stops.
Call 999 if it passes five minutes, or if it is their first.
Should I film it?
If someone else can, yes. A short video is genuinely useful to the clinician and often clarifies what type of event it was.
Do not do it at the expense of keeping your child safe.
Can they still have their vaccinations?
Yes, and they should. A post-vaccine fever can occasionally trigger a seizure, but the diseases vaccines prevent are far more dangerous.
Mention the history so you can be advised what to expect.
Do they need a brain scan or an EEG?
Not after a simple febrile convulsion. An EEG does not predict epilepsy in this situation and is not recommended.
Complex or recurrent seizures are assessed differently.
Can I leave them with a babysitter now?
Yes — with a clear written plan. Time it, keep them safe, recovery position, 999 at five minutes.
Most parents find that having the plan written down is what makes normal life possible again.