Does my child need antibiotics?
Usually not. Around eight in ten children are substantially better within three days whether or not they take one, and antibiotics shorten the pain only marginally while causing diarrhoea, rash and thrush in a meaningful number. Regular pain relief at the correct dose is the treatment that matters. A back-up prescription — used only if things have not improved in three days — is often the best middle path.
Should I put olive oil or drops in the ear?
No — nothing goes in the ear. You cannot tell without looking whether the eardrum has perforated, and if it has, anything poured in reaches the middle ear. Cotton buds are worse still: they push wax deeper and scratch the canal, which is how outer ear infections begin.
The ear is discharging and the pain has stopped. What happened?
The eardrum has almost certainly perforated, and the pressure that was causing the pain has been released. It sounds alarming and is usually fine — most heal within a few weeks. Keep the ear completely dry, avoid swimming, and get it checked, particularly if discharge continues beyond a fortnight or hearing does not recover.
What is the sign I should not wait on?
Swelling or redness behind the ear, or the ear being pushed forwards and outwards. That is mastoiditis — infection spreading into the bone — and it needs hospital assessment immediately. Facial drooping, neck stiffness or drowsiness are the same. Everything else on this page can wait for an appointment; those cannot.
My child never seems to hear me. Is that glue ear?
Quite possibly. Glue ear is fluid behind the drum causing hearing loss with no pain at all, so there is nothing to complain about — and it is very commonly mistaken for a child not listening or being difficult. Ask for a hearing test. Most resolves within three months, but where it persists and affects speech or learning, grommets are worth pursuing.
Can we still fly?
Yes. Flying with an ear infection is uncomfortable but not dangerous, and it will not burst an eardrum. Swallowing during descent is what helps — a drink, a sweet, or feeding a baby. Give pain relief about an hour before the flight.
Why does my child keep getting them?
Mostly age and anatomy — the tube connecting ear to nose is short and horizontal in young children and improves as they grow. The most effective thing you can change is smoke exposure, which has a substantial effect. Also: feed babies upright rather than flat, stop dummies after six months, keep vaccinations current, and treat any allergic rhinitis.
I'm an adult with a blocked ear that will not clear.
Worth getting looked at rather than waiting. Adults do not usually get persistent middle ear fluid, and fluid behind one eardrum only — particularly with a blocked nose, nosebleeds or a neck lump — needs ENT examination of the back of the nose. Usually it is nothing, but it is one of those situations where a trivial-feeling symptom deserves a proper look.